Raising Magnolias

Because it's never too late for happily ever after…

Blue 48, Green 23, Down, Set, HIKE!

      Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Matthew 19:14

It’s the line of scrimmage. Sweat is dripping, hearts are pounding. Tension is high. No-one dare moves. No room for penalties; no room for error.

The call is made.

Or given.

Or something like that.

Blue 48 Green 23 Razorback Red 12 43, no rushing, no dashing, no blitzing, HIKE!”

And we’re off. Well, he’s off.  I’m not allowed to rush or dash or blitz and I’m pretty sure that at least one of those is not even a real football word, but to sum it up, I can’t run toward him (rushing) and I can’t chase after him (dashing) and I can’t blitz (whatever the heck-0-la that means).

He’s the snapper (which is the guy they use when it’s close) and the center (the guy who snaps it when it’s far away) and he’s the quarterback and the receiver and the running back. He throws the ball high (to himself), catches it, runs and scores.

7-0. 7-6. 14-12. 21-18.

Are you catching the pattern? When he kicks, it’s a field goal. There are points involved. But for some reason my kicks are considered kick-off returns and I don’t get points.


Every afternoon, it’s football at the Hale-Fritz home. Emma Claire sometimes joins is, but mostly she  just pulls up a chair and becomes part of the “audience”. We pause for a half-time show and then it’s back to the game and I secretly wonder—

Whatever happened to just playing catch? I’m actually pretty good at catch.

4th quarter comes to an end. We collapse into the grass. Well, I collapse. Coulter is actually practicing his long jump. Over me. But lying in the grass, with its little dead spots where the sprinklers don’t reach and it’s little tall spots where I missed when the mower broke and the little spots of perfection few and far between and I’m lying there and I’m so confused because all this time I thought it was the football that mattered. I thought it was the catching and the running and the 1st downs and 2nd downs and I thought it was the time.

It’s actually a little hard to play football and take pictures at the same time. Just sayin’

But they say it’s the grass. It’s the house. It’s perfectly tucked sheets and hangers all hanging in the same direction and a floor free of toys and dolls and strollers and counters with no play dough and ice makers with no legos (OK, even I can admit that one’s a little weird) but we don’t just build legos and put them on a shelf. We play with them. We don’t just roll out play dough. We make ice cream and cupcakes and we put sprinkles on top and we serve them and we save them and I thought it was the time but  now you’re telling me it’s the grass.

Seriously, who THE HALE cares about the grass?

Well, maybe you care,  but ask my children.

Go ahead.

Ask my children if they care about the grass.

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4 thoughts on “Blue 48, Green 23, Down, Set, HIKE!

  1. I think I get it. Dad.

  2. Courtney on said:

    I obviously agree with your kids, our grass is dead, but I hope our lives are happy. When I care about the cleaning, I don’t see my kids. They are too important to ignore. The house will just get messy again. It’s TODAY that matters. Thought provoking post!

    • there are countless children in the world who would love to
      have a mother such as you and for those who are overly obsessed with grass they can kiss my ass…hey poetry well it rhymed anyway

  3. My grandmother was a real stickler for a place for everything and everything in its place. I remember those things, but the most memorable things that I remember about her is her sense of humor, her ability to tell a story, and the time she spent playing games with us or teaching me to play piano and sing. You are making wonderful memories with your children. If the state of your house and the yard is a problem for someone, then they need to pay someone to do it for you so that you don’t lose that time with the children! You will never get the time back and they grow up way too fast.

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